Every now and again I get a reminder as to why I need to fight so hard for Gay Rights.
The Bartender said they were actually buying drinks for one another until he asked them to leave. We don’t know the details–but unfortunately, we know the outcome. Guillermo decided he wanted to have sex with her. Her friend later stated that she was clearly a lesbian with absolutely no interest in men. When Guillermo tried to rape her, she fought back –and he, apparently, fought back even harder. He ended up choking her to death with his belt and left her dead and half naked in the nearby woods–only a few miles from my house–in an otherwise “gay friendly” town. So I mistakenly thought.
I would imagine that the victim, Mirian, thought she would go out for a few drinks and ‘hang’ with the guys for a bit. But the painful truth is–not only are you at risk as a female out alone in a straight bar–or ANY bar–but especially if you are a female lesbian. I am far from a man-hater and stay clear from any gender bias–BUT Men like Guillermo who already see women as disposable–look at lesbians with even more contempt. They want to teach them a good lesson by dehumanizing them because they simply believe they are dirt.
But I have to say–a few weeks ago a black man in my nearby town was teased at his job when a fellow co-worker put a picture of a baby monkey with his name on it–the grown black man went home in tears. Recently, a local Synagogue had yet another Swastika spray painted on it’s door. We may never be able to completely fix such negative bias against ANY minority group. These demented people are indeed opportunists–as Guillermo was. Let’s NOT give people like them ANY opportunity to hurt us– and stay safe by being aware of your environment, sticking with your friends and not getting too messed up. Without opportunity–crime simply cannot happen.