Playing the Queer Card

When my wife and I were starting out as parents together, same-sex parenting was so rare, we’d have to spell it out to people—“We are both his moms, we had him together”—and they’d get this look on their faces and say “Oh!” or “oh…” depending on whether they’d decided they… Read more »

March 2010

Getting Around

My gal and I were at a reading at bluestockings bookstore on the Lower East Side the other evening. The Reader that night is a friend and colleague, lost and found. Her new-ish girlfriend is another mutual friend, not real familiar, but we all know each other from “around.” Around… Read more »

March 2010

Very First, First Date

This weekend I had a first date with a girl I met online. We’d been talking for a bit, and I was excited to meet her, yet I was still horribly nervous. I know that I’m a big bad sex and dating blogger and I should be able to go… Read more »

March 2010
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